How to Start a Conversation with a Stranger

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• Pay attention to the person's name when introduced.  Repeat it.  If it's unusual, ask about it's origins.
• Look directly at the person. Lean forward a bit.
• Ask the person something about her/himself in a flattering way.
• Ask encouraging questions as the person talks about himself.
• Don't interrupt.  If you have an interest in keeping the conversation going, let the other person talk about  himself and his interests.  Don't immediately begin talking about yourself.  Be patient.

Source:  James Van Fleet, author of A Lifetime Guide to Conversation